The meaning of 'Checked Out'
It is a person's right to end the marriage. That statement alone is the biggest form of injustices a person can experience and is very much allowed today. My marriage didn't end on either of us committing adultery, being physically or violently abusive, or any addiction - my marriage ended simply for one reason - my wife checked out and couldn't try to love me anymore. Her love for me was so low that she didn't even want to try counselling. It took me a long time to understand - what does 'checked out' mean and if any other husband or wife is experiencing this - here's what I can try to describe it as best as I can. It's as if you don't exist anymore - your presence is the sign and reminder of hatred by your spouse, the mere mention of your name or anything baring you - makes them cringe. They've moved on in life - a life that has no connection with you. It's as if the world's population has lost one person - YOU. As strange ...