Moving from my divorce
I was married for over 13 years - and now am divorce - this is a blog as I discover my life post divorce. For the purposes of privacy - I request that if you happen to know my children or their mother - kindly provide me with the privacy as I facilitate the transfer of my children to a two home life.
Divorce is very hard - especially if you are the 'dumped' vs the 'dumpee' - it takes two sane bodies and minds to get together and agree to start a relationship - yet it only takes one to end it. This has been the biggest mind boggling epiphany for me. Divorce is probably the world's most allowable unjustified act - and it can happen without and repercussions for the 'dumpee'!
It almost provides the thoughts of why should one even bother getting married or having a relationship - when they can walk out of the marriage anytime they like? In short - I still believe that every marriage brings about its goodness - and I would be lying if I said that my marriage (no matter how badly it ended) did bring about a lot goodness too.
Most people would consider the 'goodness' to be my children - without a shadow of a doubt they were. But being married taught me how to manage a home - and this became so valuable as I moved to my own home and kept it organized for the children I share. Managing a home encompasses everything from keeping things organized, laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc.
Whatever stage you are in your divorce - I wish you all the best in the journey you've either chosen to go forward without your partner or have been forced out of a relationship.
Divorce is very hard - especially if you are the 'dumped' vs the 'dumpee' - it takes two sane bodies and minds to get together and agree to start a relationship - yet it only takes one to end it. This has been the biggest mind boggling epiphany for me. Divorce is probably the world's most allowable unjustified act - and it can happen without and repercussions for the 'dumpee'!
It almost provides the thoughts of why should one even bother getting married or having a relationship - when they can walk out of the marriage anytime they like? In short - I still believe that every marriage brings about its goodness - and I would be lying if I said that my marriage (no matter how badly it ended) did bring about a lot goodness too.
Most people would consider the 'goodness' to be my children - without a shadow of a doubt they were. But being married taught me how to manage a home - and this became so valuable as I moved to my own home and kept it organized for the children I share. Managing a home encompasses everything from keeping things organized, laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc.
Whatever stage you are in your divorce - I wish you all the best in the journey you've either chosen to go forward without your partner or have been forced out of a relationship.
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